Day 22: You know what I hate? Pretty girls. No, it's not because I'm jealous. They make the world a better looking place and I fully appreciate good looking people. I hate them because they rely solely on their looks to get them through life. Now this is a generalization so I apologize if you have been genetically blessed with both beauty and the motivation to do something with your life. I know that not every attractive girl is like this but I am talking about the majority of pretty girls that I have encountered.
I hate when I hear pretty girls say that they don't have to do anything because they are pretty. The sad part is that it's true. Society allows those with good looks to get away with more then they would an ugly person. Society allows beautiful people to think they are better then other people. Society treats good looking people better.
I hate when I ask a pretty girl what her goals in life are and she says, "To get married." No, no, NO! I will seriously flip out on you if you ever say this to me. Your goal in life should NOT be to get married. You need to be indepenent and be able to support yourself. There is no way in hell that you want to have to depend on someone else to support you. You need to contribute to society, not just be a trophy wife.
I also hate when girls (both the gorgeous and average looking) play dumb to get guys. They act perfectly intelligent and then the second a guy comes around they start feigning ignorance. Do you know the reason a guy would want a dumb girl? She's easy to get into bed with. You don't take an easy dumb girl home though, you take a smart woman home to meet your parents. Don't be naive and think playing dumb will get you a long lasting relationship. Please girls, stop acting dumb when you aren't. Why would you want to appear helpless? Sure, some guys like that so then they can appear all macho but those guys aren't worth your time. I'm not saying you have to be some sort of genius, but don't play dumb. Be yourself.
Just because your face and body are pleasing to the eye doesn't mean you can't have any goals in life. Looks only last for so long and then what will you be left with if you don't pursue anything in life? You'll have nothing. Sure, sometimes it can be tempting to use your looks in order to gain something. I see girls do it all the time. Don't. It's degrading. Work for what you want in an honest way. Achieve things with dignity and self-respect. Don't ever let anyone tell you that all you'll ever be is a pretty face.
I have a perfect example of a beautiful girl who is amazingly talented and smart. Lights. I honestly worship the ground she walks on, she is so mind blowingly awesome. Let's go over her amazingness.
1. She's gorgeous. I have heard many girls say they would join the other team for her.
2.She writes beautiful lyrics, showing that she uses her brain.
3. She is a very talented musician.
4. She's a huge nerd. She plays WOW. She collects weapons. She is any nerdy guys dream girl.
5. From what I can tell from her videos, she has a great personality. Funny, sweet, smart, and confident.
There you go pretty girls. A perfect example of how your looks don't have to define you. You can do so much with your life! Don't waste it.
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